Like Life 2 U: Self improvement-the biggest thing to avoid

The demand for auto-development of products has never been greater in the modern era. The industry development self help/personal is an industry billion dollar. Simply go to any bookstore and you'll see lines to self improvement books. It is like every other week there is a new book by a new guru. Similarly, there are several audio programs, videos, seminars and courses on various categories of self improvement. Despite its relatively high price to purchase these seminars & courses, demand is greater than ever.

It is common to hear stories of successful people read tons of self improvement books, numerous courses and basic assistance filling their minds with anything that can help them improve and successfully. Constantly engulfing content to personal development material can help to maintain the momentum of continuous improvement and success.

Though great as is, there is always the danger that too much. Like everything else in life, it is a good balance. For each auto-improvement enthusiasts out there, there is the possibility to acquire trap in hope rather than the actual results with automatic improvement.

Have you ever known or heard about someone who reads the book after book, attends a seminar after seminar and keep looking for the latest ' success secret ', but is never able to generate all this external success? Despite not having success, these people keep doing the same thing, while retaining their belief in self improvement movement.

If you do not know what had brought about major changes, transition, reading more books, attend seminars, and others continue to seek the secret ingredient that will transform their lives.

And finally, doing this all their lives without actually any of the success that was promised in the books/seminars/courses.

Because they are unhappy and want to change various aspects of their lives, people turn to self improvement-what promise the ability to make changes. Turning self improvement but it can be done as a kind of addiction, such as a drug.

Here is an example. When things don't go well, you can buy a book that promises it can teach you how to turn things around quickly. You can start to think "Yeah, if I can learn these things everything will be fine". Now that you have some hope. For the next 3 months you immerse yourself in the book. But then nothing changed much. So you can start feeling depressed again, until you see an advertisement for a path of success, which promises to change your life. Then you feel great again, you'll be optimistic for the future. But six months after that, of course, things are still the same. Feel you again ... until you see another big thing that promises the same results. And this can go as well.

Unknowingly to many self improvement enthusiasts when they do this just use auto-enhance to buy the same hope for a better future. This puts the focus continually on solving the problems in the future, rather than to face issues now on the head. This keeps the dreams of a wonderful future, and do live in this more bearable. Putting it another way, using automatic improvement to keep themselves a save a wonderful future, and forgets to take action to deal with the reality of the current situation.

Truth is most of the teachings and techniques there is really works. If you have personal development through various teachings, you will understand that more preaching such things. Why some people succeed and others do not is because in addition to the techniques and philosophy learned, to succeed you need passion, desire, discipline, and a single philosophy & yearning and desire to achieve.

So before you start looking for a new book, a new series of courses or to engage in something new, ask yourself "is the burning desire to succeed? Did masters I learned and what I use every day? I use self improvement can buy hope, instead of actually improving myself? "

Make sure you don't fall into the habit of buying hope by automatic improvement.

Copyright (c) Ethan Beh

Ethan Beh is a consultant and business self improvement which fans spent the good part of the last decade, finding, learning and practicing the best available techniques for self improvement.

Visit the http://www.self-improvement-mentor.com site for its unique collection of personal development ideas that includes among other things self motivation techniques and confidence tips.

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